You're Not Crazy. You're Not Alone.

This video series takes the shame out of your trauma response. The short and relatable videos are curated with you in mind. Each video is topic based so you can pick and choose what you need to hear that day (understanding PTSD responses, grounding techniques, how to build back trust, etc).

Start now and find relief. One by one, these videos will bring you back to yourself.

What is Betrayal Trauma?

Right after discovering the secret your partner hid from you - it’s normal to ask (on repeat):
“What happened?”, “What else do I not know?” and “Why did it happen?!”
Sometimes, months or even years later - these questions are still unanswered. Betrayal trauma is disorienting and it requires compassion. Good news - just by being here, you’ve taken your first step to heal. You can’t do this alone.

"I am so thankful for these videos..."

"After watching these videos, I began to feel less anxious. I was validated in my feelings, and that has helped me tremendously! Being reminded that I'm not alone in this sad journey has helped me feel better. For the first time in over 2 weeks, I was able to speak with my partner about something other than his betrayal when he got home from work.”

- Anonymous


"Digestible, compassionate help..."

"I don't know how people could get used to these realities of betrayal without frequent, digestible, compassionate help...Thank you!"

- Susan, 34


“It has been invaluable..”

I know I will have to work hard to forgive, regain the safety that has been lost, and find joy in my life again, but I feel stronger now and have faith I can get there. Kelly, thank you for putting this information out there for those who need it. For me, it has been invaluable!"

- Anonymous


Private, Accessible Videos At Your Own Pace

The course includes 37 concise videos that you can watch at your own pace in a setting where you feel most comfortable. You will find clarity and empowerment. Included in the purchase are 37 corresponding journal prompts to help consolidate your learning.


Preview the First Four Videos for FREE today!

  You're Not Alone. You're Not Crazy. Betrayal Trauma from a Bonding Science Perspective
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Video Series: 37 Videos and Journal Prompts

Kelly Bourque, LMFT

Certified EFT Therapist

Kelly is the founder of Red Therapy Group in Tennessee. Nearing 20 years of experience, she works exclusively with couples, facilitating 3-day private intensives. Kelly is seen as a leader and expert on Betrayal Trauma from a Bonding Science Perspective. She trains and mentors therapists across the globe.

Kelly holds a License in Marriage and Family Therapy in the state of TN and is a Certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist (EFCT), a Certified Emotionally Focused Individual Therapist (EFIT) and a Certified EFT Supervisor.

When not working, Kelly loves spending time with her three children and husband. They enjoy streaming the latest top-notch shows and love to travel.

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